When did I stop feeling so much. Because I’m a this point now where I have no details of my life to share with anyone. Where everyone is living and I feel stuck and failing. & I think I miss that so I’m some how yearning for an affection that has too much death in it to bring back. But then Jesus it’s incredible how well a couple can reflect and mirror what you once were. From beginning to end, because there’s always a Chuck to a Blair, and a Shane to a Carmen… And I can’t seem to get away from that dynamic. I miss the excitement, I miss the living. It’s been so boring. So so so boring.
Here’s something to talk about:
A lot of the time I feel this sort of pressure, expectations placed on me to accomplish things I should be doing.
And a lot of time if feels like I’m faking it rather than facing it. Most of the time I wish I was much more laid back. Much more passive, less aggressive and more submissive.
It would be easier if I didn’t push towards more and just settle. Because settling isn’t wrong but a rather a step before greed.
I remember I used to sit in bed at night and tell myself. Okay tomorrow I will try to speak less. I will try to not stand out. I will try to let others take the lead. I will try and hold myself back.
Because people don’t like the unbalanced over powering nature of me. Right?
I mean to me it makes sense.
Maybe if I reigned myself back I would not have any pressure.
Things would be different… If I was different. To think otherwise would be naïve.
No but seriously. Sometimes I wish they would all just disappear. That way I wouldn’t have to do the disappearing for them, it’s like listen… If you just went away like you should I would not have to be sitting her scrubbing my brain of your existence. Just be gone.
I mean really. We’re not in high school anymore couldn’t you just grow the fuck out of it.
You’re an awful individual because you don’t even realize how ridiculous your selfish actions are.
And after all this time you would think that you would be able to read me like a book.
But if you haven’t figured it out yet.
I’m only quiet because I love listening to you. Listening not just to random words but your shuffles, mumbles, stutters, and blinks.
I’m only quiet because I bite my tongue to not break the fragility that surrounds us with an octave or a syllable more.
I’m only quiet because I would much rather keep the explanation of the explicit and, rather terrible desires dancing in my head at bay.
So if you must understand why my lips tighten and my jaw locks. It’s because around you there is no filter, no breaks to the running sentences and thoughts rushing to burst out, no end for complicated analysis and diagnostics about this and that and you.
I’m only quiet because I rather not say anything and keep at least words as a sign of defiance against the pull you draw from me. Cause I never want anything from you… Except well everything you have, and what’s left after that too.
But until then, no words. No thoughts. No listening. No caution. No desire.
I just recently finished ‘The Book of Lost Things’ by John Connolly and I must admit it has become one of my favorite books because it’s real.
At the end of the book, David finally reaches the Kings Castle in hope that the King would help him find his way home. That he would help him escape a twisted land and help him escape from the grips of the Crooked Man. In a final twist though we learn that the King is in fact just as evil as the Crooked man and together they pressure David into staying on this land as the new King. All he would have to do is give up his sibling in the process.
David could have it all. Riches, eternal happiness, and rule over the land as King if he would just say his brothers name to the Crooked man. Mutter the word and have it all. Never to return to the real world, David would never have to return to a world full of cruelty, misery, death, and war. The Crooked man could make it all go way. But in the end David never spoke his brothers name.
The Crooked Man says
"Let me tell you the truth of the world to which you so desperately want to return. It is a place of pain and suffering and grief…It will take others from you too, mark me. Those whom you care about—lovers, children—will fall by the wayside, and your love will not be enough to save them.Your health will fail you. You will become old and sick. You limbs will ache, your eyesight will fade, and your skin will grow lined and aged. There will be pains deep with that no doctor will be able to cure…Here you can be King..”
But still David makes a noble choice and the Crooked Man dies. David returns to his world and yet all that the Crooked Man warns David about comes true. David loses his father to time, loses his brother to war, his mother and step-mother to disease, loses his wife and baby to accident, and eventually begins to lose himself to the years.
And as a reader you understand something deeper than what any fairytale can explain. All these horrid events do not happen to David because of the Crooked Man. It happens to David because life is about turmoil. It’s painful and full of suffering. David chooses this because life: it is what it is. Rather than living in a blissful ignorance to it all, it is better to take life for what it hands out. It is better to live a hard life than to never have lived at all.
Summer’s almost over, just forget about me because real life is about to knock and shatter we don’t have. And then all that will remain a chilled distance. So I want to go knowing that you understand that. Because I’m done, it’s time to grow up, awaken and face the truth. Summer is over.
You think you know someone, you have them down as shallow, self-centered, ignorant tramp. And then they surprise you. It’s really my fault though because honestly I know nothing about this girl. Nothing. So I am to blame for making accusations. But like I said I don’t know this girl so I making such judgements in my head have not, probably will not, ever amazing me. It’s just interesting is all.
That’s not to say that there are not people who can exceed your expectations. I’m not talking about the people you meet for about 13 minutes, I’m referring to those you’ve known for a life time. And regardless of if you agree with this or not we have come to judge, and accept their mannerism, their behaviors. You have agreed to who this person is and have committed to whatever with them.
and then they prove you wrong. out of the blue, they surprise you. Act so far out of character that you’re left in shock. Only to rethink, re-evaluate exactly who is this person? One time is fine, twice maybe, three okay. But what happens when time has linked you to a person you don’t recognize Someone you feel like you’re just attached by history. Nothing but the past.
There is consolation with a thought like that. Just a decision on what to do.
But on a serious note, I cried at the doctors today…
It’s just really sad. They told me things could be worse but that doesn’t make me feel any better you know?
Especially when it’s something you can’t help.
My mother thinks I’m over exaggerating like usual because there is no guarantee my condition is permanent… But like I said it doesn’t make this feeling any better.
I’m too young for kids but its really sad knowing that in the future there’s a possibility that’s not even an option for me anymore.
That’s really sad.
Per Anon request we’re gonna try the music mix once more…
Here are the songs I’ll be listening to while writing this:
We’re just in a weird moment aren’t we? What’s going on. I feel like I’m going crazy. I sat in bed last night with the inability to sleep. It’s moments like this that make us grow old. Not because a star is dead, not because the innocent receive no justice, and not because it just seems like we’re spiraling down into our own diasater. Even though all those reason seem horrible, we grow old because at the age of 11 and 12 there are children who are witnessing death, misery, corruption, and evil.
At my age I suppose it is socially excepted for me to have experience death, realize the wrong in the world but when I was 12 it was the least of my worries. And if today it’s 11 and tomorrow it’s 10, and then 8 year old kids have to be faced with the reality of pain. Have to grow up in a world that will only cater to you, IF you draw correctly in the genetic pool.
Because you better be white, you better be a male, and most importantly you must be straight.
Cause to be honest, I fear bringing a child to this world who will not be those things.
As humans we are the pinnacle of perfection, but how fucked up are we that we spawn hate. I don’t fear a lot of things in life, I do not fear rejection for I have found acceptance in myself, I do not fear loneliness for I have found peace in myself, I do not fear becoming losing for I have found prizes in myself.
But I do, truly fear hate, and only because I have found hate in me as well. And I understand how capable of an emotion that can me. Hate directed at another can be a motivation without a filter. If not even I could keep from doing despicable behavior to others whose not to say that someone is not holding back to do the tenfold towards me?
How tragic is hate, especially when it seems to leaving my glass half empty.
I’ve hit that moment once more in my life where I feel like everything is so bland that I just want to get out as fast as possible. Almost like I’m sitting in the perfect house just watching the outside world. It’s like at first the view is amazing but then you realize it’s just a view.. And when you try to take part in it, you walk over to the door of your perfect house and its locked.
That’s when the crazy decisions start to be made.
you mean so much to me, and if not me than you matter to someone.
it’s time to go back. It was a nice little vacation but its about time I go back to reality. One can only live in a fantasy for so long before it becomes just another reality right? I’m over it.
tomorrows the anniversary of this blog. and oh how I have gone full circle.
Well not really. I have plenty days (July 9th to be exact) until the anniversary of this blog, but I’m not sure I’ll have time then.
Anyway this post isn’t really a happy birthday blog post I just really needed some way of starting off this post. I’m gonna try not to think to much about what I am writing because you see when I think to much about it I stop myself and take back thoughts that I really want to just release.
So I apologize if this starts to ramble on. But I’m trying not to hit the pause button. I hit the button a lot because well I’m scared that if these thoughts get jot down people will really know what I’m thinking. And most of the time they’re wrong. What if someone gets offended? Or mad? You have to understand thoughts that I put on this blog are not thoughts that I would act upon, or even admit to. So just because I say it here doesn’t mean that this is my reality. Can I be held accountable for what I write here? I want to write but you have to pretend that you don’t see what written here. I’m tired of not being able to write something because I don’t want you to know. So please pretend that this doesn’t exist…
I hate you. So much. Very very very much. because no matter how much I struggle with it you’re like air. I hate that my body needs to breathe to live. I hate that I fall to the mercy of the air. that without it I could die. I hate that every few seconds I am subjected to take a breath of fresh air. And when I refuse it’s like my lungs ache and my insides start to scream, yelling at me to give them what the need.
And although that may sound flattering, I would much rather drown than be governed by such dependency.
because I don’t want to hate you. I would much rather be indifferent towards you. Indifferent to all that you do and say. Indifference allows me to feel nothing.
Today I thought about you and I ran away in fear. The thought ran through my brain, a hand shot to my mouth as if to stop anything else from getting in, and suddenly the walls were closing in. suffocating me.
I ran home as fast as I could.
Do you believe is an afterlife? Yes, you. Do you think that if you were to let me suffocate to death that I would live on in the afterlife? Maybe that’s too risky, am I better off living, breathing? Who knows what will happen if I’m gone right?
Ultimately the gamble is down to only me. and I unfortunately have no answers.
“In the middle of the journey of our life I found myself within a dark woods where the straight way was lost.”
Happy Birthday Light.
You wanted inspiration yes? Well this artista here has nothing more to say about the situation.
So there’s this guy. Complete total asshole. Can’t stand him. But he me feel comfortable. Safe.
Now it may not be exciting, thrilling, or epic. However it is sweet sometimes, and passionate once in a while. Most importantly it’s always stress free.
Maybe I’m done making death defying choices. Maybe it’s my time to just enjoy the life and quit with the antics. These ever changing moods, maybe I don’t need them anymore.
Safe is sound.
"Pass it" I said. It was quite demanding especially for the position I currently held…
"Why should I?" That asshole smirk opened just enough for you to give me a response.
I looked up at you. Asshole. I said nothing.
"You’ve got a big mouth for someone pinned down, but go ahead talk"
Correction King of all assholes
"You know what, fuck you. Do you know why you should fucking pass it? Because tonight no ones coming to knock on that door. No ones coming, So!"
I suppose with an finish like that I should have seen your response coming…
"At least not yet"
Final judgement: Deity of all assholes.
What a damn night.